Embrace Your Genitals:
A Workshop Series for Post-Op Trans Men

Join us for an experiential workshop series specifically created for trans men; holding space in community to explore grief, consent, and pleasure from an embodied understanding. 

Throughout the process of pursuing lower surgery, you can become so focused on the final outcome that you have to compartmentalize the myriad of emotions that are felt along the way. The medical team can prepare you for the healing process from surgery, but doesn’t have the knowledge or the capacity to teach you how to explore pleasure in your body as it is in this moment. Quite often you overlook certain losses and the grief that come with them to focus on the fact that you have the genitals you have been dreaming of. This is a space to express the fullness of your experience and learn skills to support your body and your pleasure. 

This workshop is for you: 

  • If you have had a phalloplasty or metoidioplasty (any stage)

  • If you have noticed complicated feelings during or after the surgical process

  • If feeling into boundaries and embodying consent are skills you want to learn

  • If you want more access to, and practices that support your pleasure

  • If you want to feel more at home in your body

This offering is our love letter to trans men. 

Session One: Establishing the Group Container

Session Two: Dipping Our Toes into Grief

Session Three: Learn and Practice Embodied Consent

Session Four: Individual Pleasure Practices to Expand Erotic Possibility

Other important details: 

Location: Private Zoom Room

Dates: Saturdays January 15th and 29th, February 12th and 26th

Time: 10am-12pm PST

Cost: Sliding Scale $125-$250 If you have the means to pay more so others can pay less please do.

Space for 10-15 participants.

Meet the facilitators: 

Jaiden Love (he/him) is a black trans man who has a Masters in Counseling and has owned his own business in the healing and education fields for over a decade. Jaiden’s diversity, equity, and inclusion work he does with others is unique. He enjoys sharing his lived experiences with organizations to help deepen their understanding of the vast intersectionalities and privileges many hold. As a healer, educator, and coach, Jaiden is adept at creating and holding a safe space for others to explore, learn, and do their inner work necessary for growing. Jaiden Love's website

Jess DeVries (she/her) is a queer cisgender somatic sex and intimacy coach trained in the Somatica method and currently pursuing certification in sexological bodywork. She primarily serves the queer/trans community to support folks in reclaiming body autonomy and to inspire curiosity about pleasure and sexual expression. Jess is passionate about expanding possibilities of what sex can be and guiding folks to define and pursue pleasure on their own terms. 

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